During the Christmas holidays this year, I fell asleep to the sound of my three adult children laughing and talking. It was delightful.
marriage
marriage of true minds
We did not start our marriage by thinking we must tie the knot, we must make public betrothals, we must have children. We planned nothing.
My eclipse
I was so close to achieving totality, if that is a thing you can say with any dignity, that I decided I had to try.
Marriage is like a nice old carpet
Who’s arguing anyway? My husband and I have been together for 27 years and are becoming our parents. We have plenty of good times, laughter and joy, but we argue too. Sometimes they are important arguments and sometimes they just end in “Oh, fuck off.”
Notes from a Sinking Isthmus 